Why such a disconnect? Who are these critics? Why does their opinion differ so much from the rest of us? Why do they matter more than the fan base that spends the money? How much do you agree with them? Is Black Panther REALLY the BEST film of all time?? I can think of so many films that are infinitely more impact full, meaningful, that don't even make the top 50 list.
I think a lot of the difference is when looking at things with a critical eye you are looking for direction, production issues, acting, technic, style, story etc...
On the other hand, it is possibly to enjoy a movie and rank it highly based soley on a wow factor, or something you related to despite it being badly acted or written or filmed.
There are plenty of films that have oscar worthy everything, but just do not connect. So they tend to wind up with high critic scores. On the other hand, there are "popcorn" blockbusters that might be messes from a technical or artistic sense but you leave the theater thoroughly enjoying it
i.e it's like comparing Fine Art to your kid's art.
I am sure there are many parents who are more impressed and love their kids art more than some fine art because it is personal for them
It's one of the reason I do not pay attention to any of this stuff.
I might use it as a guideline to gauge if it is in the ballpark. If I see a big disparity in scores between critics and audience it usually tells me this is a "popcorn" flick or if the other way, this is an arty flick or similar
When the two are fairly in sync with each other is usually a good sign that it has more universal appeal, but again, I may not agree
If I like a franchise and want to see a movie, I will see it regardless of the score.
Also, half the time I watch a movie and then check out a score I just shake my head and wonder if I watched the same movie as these people.
I think the better criteria most people really want to know is
"How rewatchable is this film"?
"Can I bring my kids"?
"Is this a chick flick"?
"If I bring a date (or in my case my wife), will she enjoy it, or is this a dude fest film I should see with my brother or friends"?
"Is this better enjoyed with a group of people"?
"Do I need to have seen x prequel/sequel to follow what is going on"?